Well, well, bloggers ..
Livin' in the shadow , suddenly, facing the light!
Thursday, January 15, 2009Posted by Silent Night at 1:38 AM 2 comments
Random Stuff !!
Friday, January 2, 2009"The water is burning me while it's healing everybody else " ...*sigh*
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Happy New Year!
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It was just a reverie But, it worked!!
Tuesday, November 11, 2008Today was my biggest and hardest day.. till now of course ! *hehe*
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I'm in DISTURBIA
Sunday, October 26, 2008I feel..umm, I'm so frightening , i feel I'm so lonley and lost..Don't know *sigh*
Sometimes I feel that everything around is getting better, yet, they're worse than ever ... a feeling maybe or a reality oh GOSH I can't tell anyomre!!!
God help my Disturbed mind ..
I'm in DISTURBIA for real ..
I'm so scared in getting any further step of this creepy world... !
Is it alright to feel that way once in awhile ?
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They refuse just to say " NO"..!!
Saturday, October 11, 2008In my opinion , I think the ones from men who do these things ,originally, don't think at all..I mean do I say No just because I didn't use to take it up before or didn't experienced it ?
If one of 'em-generality in my country- just try to THINK before refusing that they absolutely think that is a perfection of their manhood thing!
The words "YES" and " NO " are totally different. But, a few of us who see that a word" yes" is much easier that saying"no"
But, Come to think of it.. a "Yes" means largess , agreement and pleasure. In the other hand, word " No" means total refusing and missing a LOT of activates of life and its experiences ..Well, for me both words are HARD to take and never ever easy to say..
Both words are variant and with them I can decide .. Taking decisions is never facile at all.But, we have to return to Thinking thing that a lot of us and speaking of men specially who are the generality governing that see the negatives before the positives and generalize it for everyone and say "No" just to say "NO" ..and destroy a lot of dreams , ambition , potential energy existed in a plenty of us GIRLS..
There is a going and real scene that was sought by one of my relatives-closed one- and told me about it .. and here a lot of big changes that he thought , they were right, and it turned out to be wrong ..!
He is an employee in Aramco which is well-known by its freedom and the generality employees are men , but recently a lot women entered this force .. So what is the opinion of our fathers, brothers, uncles and families from the category of men of what is happing in our country that seemed odd and unusual ?!
Recently my relative have seen 3 saudi girls who were accepted as employees in the company .. The first one was veiling and -of course- wearing Abaya without wearing any heavy makeup, the second one was alike, and the third one was covring all of here body -wearing the abaya that put in her head-.
Onetime, they were having a presentation and all the girls and other employees were attending .. the one who didn't cover her face was so quiet and shy , and only talk about work nothing else.. the other one who was totally covered was so bold , and talk about her personal life without any timidity and she was so close in her seat with the man near to her and letting her trousers revealed ..
All the men were saying a bad things about the one who didn't cover her face and very impressive with the one that totally covered who also refuse to let her own portrait to be revealed to men"Wow what a brave and commitment girl" every saudi men said ..
But, by time passing all saudi men especially my relative have changed their minds about this girl and think that the girl who didn't cover her face has a very grand ethics .. and the other has none..
What do you think of these men that differ girls with high manners by their style of wearing Abaya ..?men Who say " No" just to appease their mastery's instinct in them
Our saudi men really need an awakening from their melancholy ideas and learn how to think before any action ...
P.S.: That doesn't mean that the girls who totally covered aren't good and they all don't have manners and I didn't think that all men are alike...
So what do you think?
This a video for saudi girls in aramco.. a big YES for ya all , GO for it ..
Posted by Silent Night at 11:10 PM 3 comments
Love or Property ..?
Monday, October 6, 2008Have you ever ask yourself what would you prefer when you're being in love with someone who is less than your social life level, who's poor or not as your rich level.. who-as he imagined- can makes you happy with his love but, not with money..!
a Scene in the movie " Becoming Jane " was the question that captured our senses-me and the girls-.
For the ones who didn't see the movie:
the scene was between Jane and her lover , he was very poor and he was responsible of his family , he has an uncle who is rich but, he didn't help him. However, he made his mind to watch over his family , but, unfortunately he loved "jane" who was from a well off family -way better than him- , so once they agreed in escaping. but, at that time she wasn't acknowledged with his situation by being the only one in his family who can take care of them. So she was hesitating and then she made her mind in renouncing her love and living with memories only ... !
What do you think of her reaction ? Do you prefer -when you're in her situation- leaving your love or living with this poor and responsible lover?
Tough Question I know .. but tell me your opinion, please !
In my point of view , she deserve to take a bow because of her brave step. Love will wither by the time passing and she will live in a place she's not welcomed at, he can't make her happy whatever he tries to do, and she will never stand being in a situation she wasn't in before and she's not forced to. The big reason for making me in her side, that I know in the end he'll hate her because she'll be a burden in his shoulder. we can't blame him Because he won't bear the stress of life and it's not certain that his situation will be better..!
Do you agree or disagree? Very Excited to read yours..
Arrivederci per ora..( Bye For Now..) !
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